Now, I tend to be not a big fan of “balance” especially as a Christian. It is a neutral trait – fine, but it also implies that decreasing something is as good a solution as increasing. Example: If I have a lot of love, but not much truth, then do I need less love? No – there is no such thing as too much love… however, I need to INTEGRATE truth into my character as well. Balance is fine, and has its place, but I think integration represents the “more exellent way.”

Thanks, Curt, for your comments! Awareness is a big part of my goal – and to give us common vocabulary for having the conversation.

Blessings
Chris

We should ask ourselves, “Is our journey to become a great warrior, wizard, lover or king in service of ourselves or in service of others?”

Your article clarifies role modeling and mentoring for me. When we serve as coach, mentor, teacher, Dad, boy scout leader, etc., we serve as role models on how to become a warrior, wizard, lover or king. The real “Aha!” for me is to become conscious of this role model effect and intentionally help others to define and understand their masculinity in a positive way – part of which is to raise awareness there are different paths.

What are your thoughts about money as the pursuit of wealth (which can also be good or bad) seems similar? Is there a fifth archetype or does money just keep score or enable pursuit of an archetype(s)?

This post is great. I had never heard of Jung, but his categories definitely give us a vocabulary to have a conversation that needs to be had.

One thought, in America today, I think that the mention of homosexuality requires more than just a nod. I understand your point, but IMHO, guys that carry misconceived notions of masculinity often live a variety of self-destructive lifestyles in order to submit their unique personality to a contrived stereotype.

-M